I have been living in my own world for 2 weeks. During this 2 weeks, i appreciated what my friends have been pulling me strongly and accompany to walk with me. Each day passes, i felt that i'm getting stronger and stronger. Thanks to all my friends, without you all, i don't know what will happen to me. Planning my activities without consideration of boyfriend's exist and no burden on whether what my decision is make. I believe that being in single hood,there will be advantages. So i'm facing the fact each day and reminding myself that we are apart.
By coincidence, i realized all my close girlfriends were also having a hard time and miserable life in their relationships. I should not name them, but particularly reasons were:
A Gal: Boyfriend neglected her, not showing much concern on her, putting her in 2nd priorities. [A Gal's thought - He made me cried for days, i have been giving him alot of chances but it's doesn't seem any changes and i'm really tired of it. I want to be silent for few months.]
C Gal: Boyfriend are flirting around outside, ONS with gals without feeling and been cheated on her. [C Gal's thought - I really blind to love him, yet i still love him so much. Even now we agreed to end it but we're still contacting I know the truth only when i happen to see his inbox and asking what the hell is going on. I feel so dump.]
Y Gal: [Boyfriend over-controlled to her, easily angry when she get miss called from him, over-possessive for everything. He wanted to end this relationship because he need to fly back to his hometown which can't tell when he will return. [Y Gal's thought - I hope he really understand me and don't wish to get quarrel over a small matters. It's really upset when you want to leave me. Do we really have to end this relationship just because you need to fly back?]
Well, guys are heartless when they have decided what they want. " Some guys" feel that love in long-term relationships will be faded one day and things get to feel bored. Do you know what girls feel in long term relationships? Girls will tend to love more the each day even when it's for years, it will just go deeper and deeper until you're unbearable of him. We can't avoid fate, only to accept it. So in the end, we still have to strong to keep on moving no matter how hard we can't bear. I think relationship is part of life where everybody will need it. So, be a generous girl to give the blessing of yours to him. This is the best that we can do.
########## Peacefully and care-free life and i'm going to archive the best of me to make each day is a blessing!############
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